My top 10 of 2017

If you know me, you know that I emphasize the reflection process in my life as a way to learn, grow, and improve. Also, life moves fast, and so this is one of my favorite ways to capture the moments and look back on them too.

Without further ado, this year’s top 10 moments in chronological order.

we Visited Australia 

In May, my husband (then fiance) took a trip to his home country, Australia.

It was my third time visiting, and we fit in quite a bit during our two-week stay.

  • We traveled to Sydney and stayed in Coogee Beach.
  • We walked the botanical gardens and took a cruise around the harbor with family during Vivid.
  • We visited Canberra (their version of Washington DC) and sat in on Question Time.
  • Took a trip to “the country” in Mansfield.
  • Ended our trip with a visit to Melbourne.

Me winning at Settlers and enjoying a VB.

Us enjoying the view from Mrs. Macquarie’s Chair.

The Sydney Harbour Bridge during Vivid.


Picasso’s “The Weeping Woman” at the National Gallery of Australia

I Left my job AT hUBspOT

Six years in life is a long time, and even longer at one company. After more than six years, I decided to leave HubSpot. I left to experience more of life, diversify my professional experience, and increase my contribution to the world. This was especially difficult because I was leaving one of the teams that I helped build – the HubSpot Academy team.

When I left, I posted an update to LinkedIn to share some career highlights, which you can see here:

Here are some of my career highlights:

  • Started the HubSpot Academy division with two other remarkable people, and grew the team to 23 people.
  • Along with the team, conceived and built our training webinars and videos, courses, the certifications program, inbound training day, and more. We started from ground zero and had zero users and nothing built when starting out, and when I left we had awarded over 73,000 certifications to the market. This was one of the more fulfilling roles because we were able to help thousands of folks get a job, promotion, a seat at the marketing table, and more. Talk about meaningful work.
  • Responsible for transitioning us from webinar-based training to video-based content. This was a big and scary proposal, but after figuring out how to best approach it – our team manager gave me the go-ahead to test it out.
  • Built HubSpot’s Learning Center with a few others. This was a vision I pursued relentlessly at all costs, and now it’s an integral part of the company’s offering.
  • Lastly and my personal favorite, building a ridiculously excellent team. When I think of rockstars, I think of every single person that’s we brought on to the HubSpot Academy team. When it was three of us in the beginning, we knew that every hire would change the dynamic tremendously and it was critical to bring on folks that would add unique value. Now people are writing books, innovating like crazy on certification courses, developing new types of education products (like Lessons. Go Lindsay go!), and more. If you have the chance to connect with one of them, don’t pass it up. Tell them I sent you. 😀

Leaving the company and the team was no easy decision. I sought the help of many mentors and even a career coach. If you’re contemplating the difficult decision to stay or leave your current job, check out Red Cape Revolution. Darcy Eikenburg is an excellent career coach who has helpful content and ways of thinking. She offers a course chalk full of introspection exercises and activities to better uncover your superpowers, passions, and goals in life. Also, this TED Talk helped tremendously to make the decision, and so did the book, Designing Your Life.

The impressive HubSpot Academy team climbing Mount Monadnock.

I Traveled throughout THE US (WITH MY FIANCE)

When I decided to leave HubSpot, Ken and I decided we’d use this time to proactively plan our next chapter together.

When we took a step back, we decided to use this time to travel, potentially move to a new city, and do some formal training.

Thus, we embarked on a journey that we both always wanted to do – travel the entire United States.

We traveled for 45 days and drove about 11,000 miles on our little Hyundai Elantra. We drove as far south as New Orleans, as far west as the coast of California, north as Seattle, and then came back through the middle of the country.

Based on what I saw on our trip, I also was inspired to start Tech Job Training for Americans.

Us on day 1 of our 45-day trip around the US. And the vehicle we traveled in.

we Visited 12 National Parks

Up until this point, I’d only been to Acadia National Park. On our trip, we traveled to the following parks:

  1. Shenandoah National Park
  2. Great Smoky Mountains National Park
  3. Guadalupe National Park
  4. Petrified Forest National Park
  5. Grand Canyon National Park
  6. Bryce National Park
  7. Zion National Park. We hiked the Narrows, which wasn’t what we were expecting at all.
  8. Death Valley National Park. It was 107 degrees Fahrenheit when we arrived.
  9. Yosemite National Park
  10. Grand Teton National Park
  11. Yellowstone National Park
  12. Rocky Mountain National Park

Climbing to the top of Guadalupe Peak, the tallest point in Texas.

At the top of Guadalupe Peak with zero visibility.

Us at the Grand Canyon, the day before we hiked down.

Hiking The Narrows at Zion

Thor’s Hammer at Bryce

Our tent at Death Valley in 112 degree weather. We camped in our tent for about half the trip. 😀

Climbing to the top of Yosemite Falls. Notice all the smoke in the background.

Us at “Le Trois Tetons” aka Grand Tetons

Grand Teton National Park


The Grand Prismatic Spring at Yellowstone

Rocky Mountain National Park 2 hours north of Denver.

we Hiked to the bottom of the Grand Canyon

One of the most physically demanding challenges I’ve undertaken in recent years, hiking into the Grand Canyon was nothing to scoff at.

It was unusually hard because of the challenges we unintentionally added into the equation, like:

  • We did our hike in the middle of August, one of the hottest months of the year in Arizona.
  • We left way too late in the morning. We began our descent at 9:30 am. That is a huge no-no because….
  • We also picked the one trail which doesn’t have access to water or shade, the South Kaibab.

Halfway down our hike, we came across a small bathroom building which had a thermometer on it – it read 110-degrees, in the shade.

When we got to our campsite at the bottom, another thermometer read 130-degrees in the sun. No wonder when I got to the bottom, after a 5-hour hike I was loopy.

About an hour into the canyon.

Halfway down, notice the temperature. :X

Here’s what it looks like toward the bottom of the Grand Canyon with the Colorado River.

we Imposed ourselves on friends while traveling

One of the beautiful parts of traveling the country was being able to see so many of our friends who now live across the US.

We stayed with friends who newly moved to NYC. We met new friends in Raleigh, NC. We stayed with our good friend Brin in Austin and saw other friends who have recently moved there. We visited Sara in San Francisco and Rachel and Ryan in Seattle. We stayed with Ken’s uncle in Vegas, and grandfather in Chicago.

We’re truly blessed to have such great people in our lives who are willing to let us both crash there and show us around their new city or hometown.

If you travel across the country, you have to impose yourself. This was great advice I got from my friend Evan, and I’m so happy we took it.

we Got married

If you read my top 10 blog post from last year, then you know that Ken and I met in Rome. One year and nine months later, we formalized our union by getting married with 50 of our closest family and friends in the White Mountains of New Hampshire.


One day after our wedding, Ken and I watched What the Health because a close friend recommended it. If you haven’t heard of it yet, it’s a documentary which “examines the link between diet and disease, and the billions of dollars at stake in the healthcare, pharmaceutical and food industries” Ken and I decided we’d try a 30-day vegan challenge.

After 30 days of no meat or dairy, I lost 4lbs and returned to my high-school weight, had tons of energy, and ditched caffeine since I no longer needed or wanted it. I also didn’t need my allergy-induced asthma inhaler which was an excellent benefit as during the fall months I typically would rely on it.

However, it wasn’t easy in the beginning. At the four-day mark, I began to feel listless and wasn’t sure I was going to make it through the 30-days. I felt sick and thought either I started battling the flu or I was ill because of the diet. After a new friend on Twitter generously sent me a free Purple Carrot box, we began to understand the power of nutritious vegan meals.

Some of our favorite vegan recipes:

After going vegan, I’ve remained a vegan at home and a vegetarian outside the house.

Learn more about 30-day challenges here.

I mEDITATED MORE often and fullY

This year I meditated almost 100 times.

Meditation was something I never thought I’d do, be interested in, or need. However, when a colleague said he meditated to “add some yin to his yang,” it got me thinking. I worked at a fast-paced company, on a fast-paced team focused on innovation, and my workouts were HIIT. Everything in my life was yang, so much so that I didn’t truly understand the yin side.

After meditating, I’ve noticed the following perspective shifts:

  • I’ve become a spectator of my thoughts. I don’t always let my thoughts or emotions at the moment drive my interactions, as I can now see them for what they are – they’re akin to clouds floating by as they’re never permanent.
  • I’ve begun to appreciate silence, solitude, and being with myself.
  • I learned about stoicism while talking about meditation, which is a philosophy I now subscribe to and study.

There are so many quality meditation apps available for download for you to choose from. I’ve been using Calm, and I love it.

I Signed on to my next career challenge

I’ve recently signed on as cofounder and head of marketing at an early-stage startup based out of Boston.


Honorable mentions:

I started to write again and on Medium this time. You can see my few posts here:

I also went back to my alma mater, the University of Florida, for a football game with my husband and parents. I loved being able to show them where I took business classes, my favorite restaurants/ bars, and take them to a game to give them some insight as to what it’s like to be a Florida Gator.

Another excellent year full of exciting moments has passed, and I look forward to seeing where 2018 takes us. 


Right now, it’s like this.

I try to use the Calm meditation app every day.

If you’ve attempted meditating, you know why I said: “try to.” Life’s already jam-packed, and there’s so much to do, finding 10 minutes to sit and be still is usually the first thing I scrap when I’m low on time.

After more than a year of steady commitment to meditation, I’m still finding my way.

Although, I’m now beginning to enjoy the journey. Being able to find my breath and ground myself in times of chaos or becoming a spectator to my thoughts are two of my favorite additions to my mental toolbelt.

Though today, I am reminded of another appreciation I have, and that’s for Calm’s “Daily Calm” feature. At the end of each 10-minute “Daily Calm” meditation, there’s an inspiring and thought-provoking story that the narrator, Tamara, includes at the end. Here is today’s story. I hope you enjoy it as much as I did.

“Wouldn’t it be nice if life went exactly as we wish.

If everyone did exactly as we wanted, and there was no traffic or loud construction, and the weather was always perfect. Unfortunately, rare is the day when we experience zero conflict. So in order to find peace, it’s important to become *flexible* to our circumstances.

I’ll share a brief story that speaks to this effort.

Early one morning, an intrepid traveler walked down a long and dusty road. Before long, he came upon a shepherd tending to his flock. The traveler asked, “What kind of weather are we going to have today?” The shepherd answered, “The kind of weather I like.” The traveler asked, “But how do you know it will be the kind of weather you like?” The shepherd answered,” Having found out sir that I cannot always get what I like, I have learned to always like what I get. So I am quite sure we will have the kind of weather I like.”

The shepherd shows to be open and flexible to what life gives him. By accepting what he couldn’t change, he practiced nonresistance. It was as though his personal mantra is “Right now, it’s like this.”

So the next time life throws you a curve ball and you wake up to noisy construction, or it rains on the day you’ve planned an outdoor bash. Try calling on that phrase, “Right now, it’s like this.” Do your best to bring a spirit of nonresistance to the situations you can’t change and challenge yourself to accept what is.

In the words of Henry Wadsworth Longboat, “The best thing you can do when it rains is let it rain.”

Three powerful videos for mental breakthroughs (& are all under 6 minutes)

Some of the best mental breakthroughs I’ve had in my life have come from the shortest videos I’ve found on YouTube.

Below are three videos which have had a profound impact on my life:

Try something new for 30 days – Matt Cutts
Time: 3 minutes 27 seconds

After watching this inspirational video, I was craving for the next month to begin so I could start my 30-day challenge journey. My first challenge was one which Matt Cutts recommended – the photo challenge. It was to take one photo a day for 30 days. Many of them I posted to my blog (yup, the one you’re reading now) with their location, my take, and why it was important to me at the moment that day. While it was pretty easy as far as 30-day challenges go, I began to feel myself growing.

At the end of the 30-days, I developed more awareness of the world around me, I found a passion for art, and I even found more confidence in myself. The life I now live, five years after first watching this video, is paramount to what it would be without the video. I’ve done the photo challenge, three Whole-30 challenges, a vegetarian challenge (turns out it doesn’t work for me), a new recipe challenge, a fitness challenge (I have now worked out basically 5 days a week for the past 4 years), and so much more.

This video not only led me to try a lot of new things in life that I wouldn’t have considered otherwise, but I also started a blog series around them, talked about the topic at many Toastmasters speeches, and even got to experience the fruits of my labors in different ways than I knew possible. For example, completing the fitness challenge led me to climb Mount Washington with several friends and train for a half marathon – two things which I never even considered with my realm of possibility beforehand.


How to start a movement – Derek Sivers 
Time: 5 minutes 41 seconds.

I loved this video so much. Not only is Derek informative, but his clever use of supporting video footage was exceptional.

This video inspired me to cultivate my own thoughts on the topic, found here, “The Unspoken Power of a Great Follower.”

Responding To Stress – Rabbi Dr. Abraham Twerski
Time: 1 minute and 30 seconds

If you’re alive, you’ve encountered stress. I found what matters most to me is understanding what stress looks like, how to deal with it, and the best yet -how to thrive from it. This short video delivers a huge punch when it comes to better understanding how your brain works under stress.

November 12, 2018 Update:

Adding another video in here:

Practice This For a Few MINUTES Each day – It Will Radically Change Your Life – Vishen lAKhIANI

Time: 10 minutes 45 seconds

For a while there, the internet was filled with content like “5 Morning Routines from Top Tech Execs” and “10 Tips to Being Your Most Productive Self.” At first, I ate these up. They were like food for body or puzzles for my brain. They were incredible and a lot of what I learned, I applied.

Then I got bored with them and realized that while there was some advice in there, it wasn’t the 10x growth I was looking for in life. Then I found my career coach.

My career coach and I talk a lot about mental states (not quite like this), and that is how 10xing your happiness, your success, your growth — everything really, is actually possible.